Exploring the world of sex toys can be exciting. With thousands of options available, there’s something to suit every body, desire, and budget. From vibrators and dildos to harnesses and prosthetics, these tools can enhance pleasure and self-expression. However, proper use, cleaning, and storage are essential to ensure your safety and the longevity of your products. Here’s a guide to help you explore this diverse and vibrant world safely. 

Sex toys come in a wide range of styles and designs. There truly is something for everyone. Although some toys may be marketed towards certain bodies, it’s important to remember that with a bit of creativity and imagination, most toys can be enjoyed in a variety of ways, regardless of their intended user. Some toys may have a more neutral appearance, while others might be designed to resemble or replicate specific body parts like the anus, penis, vulva, or vagina. Sex toys can vibrate, suction, flick, rub, restrict, pinch, restrain, and do so much more. Additionally, some sex toys can be used as aids to enhance comfort or prevent pain during sex. 

Things to Consider When Buying a Sex Toy 

  • First time?: If it’s your first time buying a sex toy, or trying a particular type of toy, it’s best to start small and ease into the experience. Size may be a factor, and bodies often need time to adjust to new sensations. For example, sex toys can provide unique sensations, like vibration, which aren’t achievable through manual stimulation. You might discover that you don’t enjoy vibration after trying it, so start with something smaller or less intense, such as a bullet vibrator, to experiment. 
  • What kind of play?: Think about how and when you’ll use the toy. Will it be for solo use or with someone else? 
  • Must-haves: Consider the specific features you need. Would you prefer a toy that’s battery-powered or rechargeable? Does it need to have a travel lock? Should it be waterproof or whisper quiet? 
  • Explore first: Avoid buying a toy for a body part you haven’t explored yourself or with someone else. 
  • Go with what catches your eye: Consider what stands out to you, whether it’s the colour, shape, or texture. What grabs your attention? 
  • Read reviews: While everyone’s preferences are unique, reading reviews or looking at best-selling items can guide you toward well-made products. However, keep in mind that what works for one person may not work for you. 
  • Materials: Sex toys are made from a variety of materials. Some are porous (with tiny holes) and some are non-porous (no tiny holes).  It’s generally recommended to choose toys made from non-porous materials, as they are much easier to clean properly. Examples of common porous materials are rubber, jelly and latex. Common non-porous materials are pure silicone, ABS hard plastic, borosilicate glass and metal, to name a few.  

Safe Use 

  • Hygiene: Regularly clean prosthetics according to the manufacturer’s instructions. For items like breast forms or packers, use mild soap and water and let them air dry. Avoid using harsh chemicals that can damage the material. 
  • Use a Different Condom Every Time: When using insertive toys or prosthetics (dildos, strap-ons, prosthetic penis, etc.), switch condoms each time you change body parts or partners. This helps prevent the spread of STIs and maintains hygiene. 
  • Use Lube: Lubrication reduces friction and enhances pleasure. Use water-based lubes for easy cleanup, silicone-based for longer-lasting sessions, and avoid oil-based lubes with latex barriers. Apply generously to prevent discomfort and potential tearing. Remember, silicone lube shouldn’t be used with silicone toys.

Cleaning 

Proper cleaning is essential to prevent infections and maintain the quality of your products. Always check the manufacturer’s instructions for information about how to clean your specific product. Here’s how to clean different materials: 

  • Silicone: Wash with warm water and mild soap. Or, use a toy cleaner and rinse.  
  • Plastic, Acrylic, Glass, Metal: Clean with warm water and antibacterial soap. Sterilise using rubbing alcohol. Acrylic, glass, and metal can be boiled. 
  • Rubber, Latex, Jelly: Wash thoroughly with warm water and antibacterial soap or use a toy cleaner. These materials are porous and can harbour bacteria, condoms are useful with these materials. 
  • Cyberskin, Vinyl: Clean with warm water and liquid antibacterial soap, then sprinkle with cornstarch to keep the material from becoming sticky. 
  • Motorised toys: Wipe with a damp, soapy cloth or use a toy cleaner. Avoid submerging in water, especially if they have electrical components. Use a soft toothbrush for textured areas. 
  • Enema or Douching Equipment: Thoroughly wash with hot, soapy water and soak in a sanitising solution. Never immerse electrical components in water. 

Storage 

Proper storage extends the life of your products. Here’s some tips: 

  • Clean and Dry: Ensure toys are thoroughly cleaned and dried before storing. Leaving bodily fluids or lube on your products can degrade the material and make it unsafe for future use. 
  • Cool, Dry, Dark Place: Store in a cool, dry, and dark location to prevent degradation. 
  • Avoid Contact: Keep toys from touching each other, as some materials can react negatively. Soft satin bags can help with this, and some products come with these.